How to accept a return on eBay as a seller: every option, step by step

By the Dropizon team Published 7 min read Order Fulfilment
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In short

To accept a return on eBay, open the request in Seller Hub, choose to accept it and send the buyer a return label or your return address, then refund once the item is back. You can also refund without a return or offer a partial refund. Act within 3 business days, and check the item before you refund.

Key takeaways

  • Accept a return from the request in Seller Hub, then send a label or your return address.
  • Refund when the item arrives back, after checking it, or refund without a return for low value items.
  • Respond within 3 business days so the buyer cannot ask eBay to step in.
  • UK business sellers must have a returns policy, and buyers have a legal right to cancel up to 14 days after delivery.
  • Return rules in your account can accept or refund some returns automatically.

How do you accept a return on eBay?

To accept a return on eBay, open the return request in Seller Hub, choose the option to accept it, and give the buyer a way to send it back: an eBay return label, your own label, or your return address. When the item arrives, check it and issue the refund through the request. If the item is not worth the cost of sending back, you can refund without a return instead.

Speed matters. Under the eBay Money Back Guarantee, sellers must respond within 3 business days, after which the buyer can ask eBay to step in. A return handled inside that window is resolved by you and does not count against your seller performance.

What options do you have when a return request arrives?

OptionWhen it suitsWhat happens next
Accept and send an eBay labelMost returns, especially not as describedBuyer prints the label, posts the item, you refund when it arrives
Accept and give your return addressChange of mind returns where the buyer pays postageBuyer chooses a service and adds tracking
Refund without a returnLow value items, or damaged items you do not want backBuyer keeps the item, refund goes out now
Offer a partial refundMinor faults the buyer can live withBuyer accepts or declines; if accepted, they keep the item
Send a replacementWrong or faulty items when you have stockBuyer gets the right item, return may still be needed
Message the buyer firstYou need a photo or more detailClock keeps running, so do not wait long

Step by step: accepting a return in Seller Hub

  1. Go to Seller Hub, open Orders, then Returns. Open the request.
  2. Read the reason, the buyer's comments and any photos. Note when your 3 business days end.
  3. Choose Accept return.
  4. Pick how the item comes back: an eBay return label (you pay when the buyer uses it), a label you upload, or your return address for the buyer to use their own service.
  5. Add a short note for the buyer: how to pack it and when to post it.
  6. Watch the return tracking. When it shows delivered to you, open the parcel the same day.
  7. Check the item, then choose Refund in the request. Refund the full amount the policy and the reason require.

In the eBay app

The same request appears in the app under Selling, with the same options. Accepting from the app is useful when a request arrives in the evening, so your 3 business days are never at risk.

Messages that make returns smoother

A short note when you accept saves questions later. Tell the buyer to pack the item securely, include all parts, use the label you have provided, and post within the time shown in the request. When the refund goes out, send one line to say so. These two messages take a minute and prevent most of the follow-up questions sellers get about returns.

Who pays for the return postage?

It depends on why the item is coming back.

  • Not as described: the item is wrong, damaged, faulty or missing parts. eBay expects the seller to cover the return, and an eBay label is the simplest way.
  • Change of mind: your returns policy decides. If you state that the buyer pays, give them your return address and let them choose a service. If you offer free returns, send a label.

UK business sellers must create a returns policy stating how long buyers have to return items for a full refund, according to eBay's business seller policy. Separately, the Consumer Contracts Regulations give buyers from a business online the right to cancel up to 14 days after delivery without a reason, and up to 12 months if the business did not tell them about that right. The details are on gov.uk; check your own obligations with a qualified adviser if unsure.

A worked example: is a return worth it?

Example, with hypothetical numbers. A buyer wants to return a £15 phone case as not as described: it is the wrong model. An eBay return label would cost you £4.

  • Accept the return: you pay £4, refund £15, and get back a case that you can resell for perhaps £12 after listing it again. Net cost about £7 plus your time.
  • Refund without a return: you refund £15 and save the £4 label, but lose the case. Net cost £15, with no time spent.

Now the same question for a £120 pair of headphones with a £6 label. Here the return clearly pays: you recover an item worth far more than the label. A simple rule many sellers use is to refund without a return below a value they choose, and ask for the item back above it. Pick your own number from your margins, not someone else's.

Return rules: automating the easy decisions

eBay lets sellers set return preferences, sometimes called return rules, in their account. You can choose to accept certain returns automatically, or refund without a return below an amount you set, so that simple requests are dealt with even when you are away from your desk.

Use them for decisions you would always make the same way. Keep manual control over high value items, and over reasons where you want to see photos first. Review the rules every few months, because a threshold that made sense at one price level may not suit new products.

What should you check when the item comes back?

  • It is the item you sent: compare model, serial number or any mark you recorded.
  • All parts and accessories are there.
  • The condition matches what the buyer reported.
  • For change of mind returns, the item is in the condition your policy requires.

If something is wrong, such as a different item in the box, photograph it before you do anything else and contact eBay through the request with the evidence. Do not simply refuse the refund without telling eBay why.

How quickly should you refund?

Refund on the day the item arrives and checks out. The buyer can see from the return tracking that you have it, and every day you wait after that feels like a delay to them. A buyer who is refunded the same day often leaves positive feedback even though the sale did not work out. A buyer who has to chase a refund rarely does. If you are going to be away, set a return rule or ask someone to check parcels, so returns are not left in a pile.

Refund the right amount. For a not as described return, that is the full amount the buyer paid, including the original postage. For a change of mind return, follow what your returns policy says and what the law requires for UK business sellers, and check eBay's returns pages if you are unsure what you may deduct.

Resaleable or not?

Once the item is back, decide quickly what to do with it. Items in perfect condition can be relisted as new only if they really are unopened and complete; anything opened or used should be relisted with the correct condition and honest photos. Faulty items may be claimable from your supplier. Write the decision down, so returns do not pile up on a shelf.

Returns when someone else supplied the item

If a supplier sent the original parcel, agree in advance where returns go and who checks them. eBay's drop shipping policy allows fulfilling orders directly from a wholesale supplier, but not buying from another retailer or marketplace that ships directly to your customer, and in every case the seller is responsible for the buyer's satisfaction, including the return.

A returns checklist

  • Check returns in Seller Hub every working day, and turn on app alerts.
  • Accept or resolve each request within 3 business days.
  • Use an eBay label for not as described returns.
  • Open returned parcels on the day they arrive and refund promptly when they check out.
  • Set return rules for the simple cases, and review them regularly.
  • Record why each item came back and fix the listing or product that caused it.
  • Relist returned stock with its true condition as soon as it has been checked.

For claims where the buyer says the item does not match the listing, read our guide to eBay item not as described requests, and for the deadlines behind every return, see the eBay Money Back Guarantee for sellers.

Frequently asked questions

Can I decline a return request on eBay?

You can decline a change of mind return if your returns policy does not offer returns, but that is a decision about your own policy and, for UK business sellers, the law on cancellation rights. You cannot decline your way out of a genuine not as described request under the eBay Money Back Guarantee.

What if the buyer never sends the item back?

If the buyer does not post the item within the time eBay gives them, the request can close without a refund. Keep an eye on the request, and do not refund before the item is on its way unless you have chosen to refund without a return.

Can I charge a restocking fee?

eBay's rules on restocking fees depend on the site, the reason for the return and what your returns policy states. Check eBay's current returns policy pages before adding one, and never charge one on a not as described return.

Do I get my fees back on a returned item?

When you refund a buyer in full through eBay, eBay generally credits the final value fee on that sale, though some fees may not be refunded. Check the fee details on the order and your invoice.