How to remove negative feedback on eBay: the routes that work and the ones that break the rules
In short
To remove negative feedback on eBay, either ask eBay to remove it because it breaks eBay's feedback rules, using the request in Seller Help, or resolve the buyer's problem and send a feedback revision request. If neither applies, reply publicly and calmly. Never offer money or extras in exchange for a change.
Key takeaways
- eBay removes feedback that breaks its feedback rules; request it through Seller Help.
- After resolving a buyer's problem, you can send a feedback revision request; the buyer decides.
- A calm public reply shows future buyers your side when feedback stays.
- Offering a refund or anything else in exchange for changing feedback breaks eBay's rules.
- Negative feedback does not count in eBay's seller performance standards, but buyers read it.
Can you remove negative feedback on eBay?
You can remove negative feedback on eBay in two ways. eBay itself will remove feedback that breaks its feedback rules, when you ask through Seller Help and the feedback meets its criteria. Or the buyer can revise their own feedback after you have resolved their problem, if you send a feedback revision request and they agree. Outside those two routes, the feedback stays, and the best you can do is reply to it publicly.
eBay has widened the situations in which it removes negative and neutral feedback in recent years. Its Seller Centre announcement on the feedback policy explains the changes, and the current rules are on eBay's help pages.
When will eBay remove negative feedback?
eBay removes feedback when it breaks eBay's rules, not when it is simply unfair or unkind. Situations eBay generally treats as grounds for removal include:
- Abusive content: profanity, hate speech or threats.
- Personal information: the seller's name, address, phone number or other private details.
- Links or off-topic content: links, or comments that are about something other than the transaction.
- Feedback used as a threat: where the buyer demanded something the listing did not offer and used feedback as leverage.
- Problems outside your control: for example, some carrier delays or eBay system issues that eBay recognises.
- Feedback linked to buyer misconduct: where eBay finds the buyer broke its rules on the transaction.
eBay also removes some feedback automatically when it clearly breaks the rules. For cases that are not clear-cut, you can request a manual review.
How to make a removal request
- Go to Seller Help, or the feedback section of your account, and find the option to request feedback removal.
- Choose the order and the feedback.
- Pick the reason that matches eBay's rules, not just that the feedback is unfair.
- Explain in one or two sentences, with the evidence: messages, tracking or the buyer's demand.
- Submit, and check your messages for eBay's decision.
What evidence helps a removal request
eBay decides removal requests on what it can see. Point it to the evidence rather than describing it:
- The eBay message where the buyer made a demand, used abuse or shared personal details.
- The tracking page showing a carrier delay with a timely acceptance scan, when the complaint is about lateness.
- The request or case, if the buyer left feedback about something eBay has already decided in your favour.
Keep the request calm and short. A removal request that reads like an argument with the buyer is less persuasive than two factual sentences.
Neutral feedback
Neutral feedback is treated much like negative feedback for removal purposes: eBay removes it when it breaks the rules, and you can ask the buyer to revise it after resolving a problem. Many neutral comments come from buyers who were mostly happy but had one small issue, which makes them good candidates for a friendly message and a revision request once the issue is fixed.
How do you ask a buyer to revise feedback?
If the feedback does not break eBay's rules, the only way to change it is for the buyer to revise it. eBay lets sellers send a feedback revision request after the problem has been resolved. eBay limits how often you can do this, so use it when you have actually fixed something.
- Fix the problem first. Refund, replace or accept the return, so the buyer has a reason to change their view.
- Message the buyer. Apologise once, say what you have done, and ask, without pressure, whether they would consider revising their feedback.
- Send the revision request from the feedback section of your account.
- Accept their decision. The buyer can accept or ignore it.
A message you can adapt
Hello [name], I am sorry your order did not go as it should. I have now [refunded you in full / sent a replacement]. If you feel the problem has been put right, I would be grateful if you would consider revising your feedback. Either way, thank you for giving me the chance to fix it.
What breaks eBay's feedback rules for sellers?
Sellers can break the rules too, and the consequences can be worse than a negative comment.
| Action | Allowed? |
|---|---|
| Resolving the problem, then sending a revision request | Yes |
| Politely asking a buyer to consider revising after a fix | Yes |
| Offering a refund only if the buyer changes feedback | No, this is feedback manipulation |
| Offering a gift, discount or payment for positive feedback | No |
| Repeatedly messaging the buyer to change feedback | No, this can be treated as harassment |
| Asking a friend to buy and leave positive feedback | No, this is feedback manipulation |
Make every refund on its merits. If the buyer then chooses to revise their feedback, that is their decision.
How should you reply to negative feedback that stays?
You can reply once, publicly, to feedback you receive. Future buyers read the reply alongside the comment, so write it for them, not for the buyer who left it.
- Keep it short and factual: what happened and what you did.
- Stay polite, even if the comment was not.
- Do not include personal details or accusations.
- Say what you have changed, if anything, so future buyers see a seller who fixes things.
Example reply: "Sorry for the delay. The courier held the parcel for four days; we refunded postage and have changed courier for this area."
Do not reply in anger
A reply cannot be edited easily once posted, and it stays on your profile beside the comment. Write it, wait an hour, then read it again as if you were a new buyer deciding whether to trust you. If any line sounds defensive or sarcastic, cut it.
Why does negative feedback matter if it is not a performance metric?
eBay's seller performance standards look at defects, cases closed without seller resolution and late deliveries, not at feedback. So a negative comment will not, on its own, make you Below Standard or trigger selling limits. It still matters for three reasons.
- Buyers read it. Your feedback percentage and recent comments appear on every listing. A cluster of recent negatives about the same problem tells buyers what to expect.
- Search looks at your track record. eBay names the seller's track record among the factors in Best Match, though it does not say how much weight it carries.
- It points at a problem. Most negatives describe something you can fix: slow dispatch, poor packing, unclear listings or slow replies.
Treat each negative as information first and as a reputation issue second. A seller who reads every comment and fixes the cause gets fewer of them over time, which does more than any removal request.
Buyers who never contacted you
The most frustrating negatives come from buyers who never sent a message. You cannot stop a buyer leaving feedback, but you can make contact easy: a clear note in the parcel inviting the buyer to message you through eBay if anything is wrong, and fast replies when they do.
A worked example: one negative, three routes
Example, with hypothetical situations for three negative comments in one month.
- "Took ages, rubbish seller, [seller's full name and town]." The comment contains personal information. You request removal through Seller Help on that ground.
- "Arrived broken." You had not seen a message from the buyer. You apologise, refund in full, and send a revision request. The buyer revises it to positive.
- "Not as good as I hoped." The item matched the listing and the buyer did not contact you. The comment breaks no rule. You reply politely, pointing to the listing details and your returns policy.
Only the first was removed by eBay, the second was revised by the buyer, and the third stays with a reply that future buyers can read.
How do you get less negative feedback in the first place?
- Answer messages within a working day, so buyers raise problems with you rather than in feedback.
- Upload tracking promptly, so buyers can see where their parcel is.
- Send bad news early: a delay explained on day one rarely becomes a negative.
- Make listings accurate, with honest condition and clear photos.
- Resolve returns and requests quickly and politely.
Feedback is not one of the measures in eBay's seller performance standards, which look at defects, cases and late deliveries; our guide to eBay seller performance standards in the UK covers those. For wording that keeps buyers informed, see our eBay buyer message templates.
Frequently asked questions
Can a buyer remove feedback themselves?
A buyer cannot simply delete feedback, but they can revise it if you send a feedback revision request and they accept. The original comment is then replaced by the revised one.
Does negative feedback affect my seller level?
Feedback is not one of the metrics in eBay's seller performance standards. It still matters because buyers read it before they buy, and eBay counts your track record among the factors in Best Match search.
What if a buyer threatens negative feedback unless I refund?
That is a demand eBay treats as a breach of its rules. Do not agree to the deal. Keep the message, report it to eBay, and handle the order through the normal return or request process. If the buyer then leaves feedback, mention the message in your removal request.
Can I leave negative feedback for a buyer?
No. On eBay, sellers can only leave positive feedback for buyers. If a buyer breaks the rules, report them to eBay instead.